Friday, October 30, 2015

OCTOBER 30th-"My sister says our mom killed her. My mom says I do not have a sister."


(Last one! Happy Halloween everyone!)

My sister says our mom killed her. My mom says I do not have a sister.
Technically speaking, neither is wrong and neither is right

My sister is not dead, but my mom does kill her little by little by denying who she really is. Biologically speaking, I do not have a sister, but if my sister says she’s my sister then, to me, she is.

I feel for my sister, who suffers endlessly in her male prison. Everyday is a struggle for her identity to be recognized, and acknowledged for what it truly is: female. It’s hard watching her cry because she wants to wear a tutu to school like all the other girls, but my mom telling her to stop that nonsense and forcing her into a little league uniform. 

I tell her I love her, and when she was forced to get a haircut, I made sure to buy her a wig she could wear in secret. It was black with long curls and my sister was delighted. It made me happy to see her eyes light up at such a simple gesture. That’s the thing though, what she wants is so simple. Let her be. She’s one of the sweetest kids you’ll ever meet, and she’s very funny (regardless of gender).

I’m worried though. Everyday her smile is sadder, her laughter is quieter and her presence is smaller. So maybe she’s more right than I thought, our mom is killing her.
Well, I simply won’t let her.

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